Sunday, October 28, 2012

Escapism

How to let on without letting on... Just recently, I managed to merge two different circles in my life, two groups of friends who only know each other through me. (that's vuke and cleanpeople if you really must know). It has been a long time coming, I have been planning and plotting for months to merge these groups. With an entire generation between them who would have thought they can come together over a newly discovered, shared interest. Just thinking of this shared something tickles me pink, because already, the experiences are worthy of an entire novel. (are you smiling with me yet...?)

So the plan was hatched to educate vuke on the 80s and 90s relic that is just about ready to fall of the face of the earth as yet another casualty of electronic commerce. Or at least that is what I thought. Unfortunately, to protect the interest of those who participated in the excursion, I cannot say more about it. Suffice it to say that it was thoroughly satisfying and can be quite addictive. 

Since sharing the experience, most of our skype conversations, live conversations, email messages are punctuated by it. You can't find a topic where the mention of the experience is not appropriate. It has become a method of escapism (or a method to madness...) from the harsh realities of work and life. Our own little zen garden, where we go to recharge or to laugh or to be carefree... to smell the flowers, watch them blossom, feel them, touch their petals, give them a drink...

Lost in Translation

How do you react when someone tells you "you have a body to die for..."??? I find I'm not surprised to find out that there are some who are unfamiliar with the expression. Consider untrained minds who gets to hear this line for the first time. Imagine how they's react.

Here is one real-life, and please lets just call it naive response to the line:

Girl: "You have a body to die for...."
Boy: "Grabe ka naman mang-husga..."
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Author: Monie Maunay
email: buddygallagher@gmail.com

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notes from a non-fan

Watching the fifa world cup finals, I'm reminded of why I don't follow it, you wait four years to watch a yawner. I was actually rooting for the dutch just because I dream of living in their country. So I sat through the entire match (because there's nothing else on tv). After two hours of running around, the only thing I got to enjoy were the dramatic moments when players challenged the yellow cards they were given. I also enjoyed the commercial spots. 

The goal that everyone came to see happened in regulation time. The commentators' rap was totally uninspired. The winners' interviews were in spanish and don't get me started on the actual cup, the trophy that was so little, the little phallic trophy that every man on the team wants to get their hands on hahaha. I had the good grace to shout "ayun" when spain finally scored the goal and loved seeing queen Sofia's box rejoice. I guess I only watched to see how big a deal it really is because it seemed to matter a lot to a whole lot of people. I'm not totally lost to the charm, spain's jubilation was infectious, there were just so many happy faces and that's always a good thing.


Author: Monie Maunay
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how to love


"You are beautiful, but you are empty. One could not die for you. To be sure, an ordinary passerby would think that my rose looked just like you--the rose that belongs to me. But in herself alone she is more important than all the hundreds of you other roses: because it is she that I have watered; because it is she that I have put under the glass globe; because it is she that I have sheltered behind the screen; because it is for her that I have killed the caterpillars (except the two or three that we saved to become butterflies); because it is she that I have listened to, when she grumbled, or boasted, or even sometimes when she said nothing. Because she is my rose."


"It is only with the heart that one can see; what is essential is invisible to the eye." 

“I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride; so I love you because I know no other way.” 

Author: Monie Maunay
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the utter drama and the exquisite pain

got a message from someone today warning me off posting anything on their wall here in fb because the partner gained access and is monitoring the page (not that i wrote anything there in the first place)...but what a laugh. to be under someone's thumb that way. i guess some are built to be victims and i cant help thinking they enjoy playing the role to the hilt. its not even melodramatic. for me its downright mental. but hey, whatever floats your boat is what i always say. the most dramatic I've ever gotten is giving grunts for answers when someone i don't like is talking to me. 

now back to our little spot under the sun, i have to say i love my little sweet corner in the new work space, i have the huge glass windows behind me and the ac unit over my head. i have a pretty good view of the whole room and enough distance to ignore everybody else. i have accomplished much in the 5 days ive been sitting there than in months and months of being in the thick of everyone else, it doesnt get more zen than this and it has stopped feeling like im fighting in a full contact sport anymore.

cant say the same for our androgynous trainer though, i'd say she's smack dab in the 9th circle of hell with all the work coming her way, but thats alright cuz she's getting a whole lot of loving from a country boy who wants to get it on with her haha.

we've been having a string of health problems in this little spot of late, there's a bleeding cervix, blood in the stool, lump in the breast, monster migraines, its not looking so good by a damn sight. and there are freak accidents like the one our pretty pregnant princess had, she tripped in a vehicle and fell then in another incident she passed out in a convenience store.

nature also weighed in with two nasty typhoons and some earthquakes in other parts of the earth thats enough for another round of doomsday conspiracies, from global warming to the mayan calendar that ends in dec 12, 2010. in a sense i guess we all got a little victim factor within us, we love selling the drama and reveling in the exquisite pain. i am quite comfortable in the notion that the good lord knew even before we were born, when he's going to take us back home...

Author: Monie Maunay
email: buddygallagher@gmail.com
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always keep a little prayer in your pocket

I'm sharing with you the shortest prayer i know, this is everything i ever want to be in my life you will never want for material things, but i think you can always use a little prayer in your pocket oftentimes in life we set our sights too high or too low to find our answers when we need only to look inside ourselves in the purest most spiritual place that we had forgotten we have always had mind you, i'm not religious but i'm very spiritual!

Lord make me an instrument of your peace,
Where there is hatred let me sow love.
Where there is injury, pardon.
Where there is doubt, faith.
Where there is despair, hope.
Where there is darkness, light.
And where there is sadness, joy.

O divine master grant that I may
not so much seek to be consoled as to console;
to be understood as to understand;
To be loved as to love
For it is in giving that we receive-
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned.
And it's in dying that we are born to eternal life.
Amen


Author: Monie Maunay
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keeping my feet on the ground

when seeking my bearings i turn to words, not my own though, but those of the wise, the thinkers, the life scholars whose work is to watch humanity and interpret their lives. these string of words restore my faith in men. always I am left with a good feeling about people, about my general situation, about the world. it gives me a feeling of being back home where love is abundant and life is rich. i find it ironic though that often, human wisdom seems to spring mostly from human tragedy. but thats the way it has always been. after the hurting comes the learning.this is the reason why im drawn to maxims, quotes if you may, a collection of words that are so wise it can change ones world view. 

im sure you have those moments, when you read a quote or hear a line in a movie or a song or a poem and you are totally knocked off because it totally resonates through your beliefs, your thinking and your conventions, it strikes a chord in you so to speak.

this has happened to me over a million times, when a string of words strikes a chord in me so strongly that it stays with me for life. one such quote comes from the movie - my best friend's wedding - in the scene when julia roberts, after realizing she has totally mucked up the wedding was chanced upon by the hotel bellboy smoking in the hallway. the bellboy stops and takes a drag from julias cigarette and said something like - for whatever youre going through, my grandma always said; THIS TOO SHALL PASS... - everytime i find myself in a less than savory situation, i always tell myself this. it too shall pass, then i am able to see beyond the bad patch and into the time when the situation will have already passed. 

another one of my great movie moments was from schindlers list, the part when the war is over and schindler had to flee because he would be hunted. after being presented by his Jews with a ring, he broke down and said the ring would have bought him three more jews to save. because he would use his riches to purchase jews to work in his factory and ultimately to save their lives. it was from this scene where the tag line for the movie was taken, the tag line is actually a verse from the Talmud, a collection of rabbinic verses about life, that goes something like, if you save one life, you save the world entire.

finally, there is a line from a stevie Wonder song that has blown me away, and if you can name the song, i will give you a big hug or a loud kiss hahaha, here goes...

"But I believe that love can save tomorrow
I believe the truth can make us free
Someone tried to say it, but we nailed Him to a cross..."

Here are other quotes from the Talmud that keeps me grounded and though some of these are outright weird or funny, they still ring true somehow...

* Whoever destroys a soul, it is considered as if he destroyed an entire world. And whoever saves a life, it is considered as if he saved an entire world.

* If I am not for myself, then who will be for me? And if I am only for myself, then what am I? And if not now, when?

* Repent one day before your death. 

* Say little and do much. 

* Make a teacher for yourself, acquire for yourself a friend, and judge every man to the side of merit. 

* In a place where there are no men, strive to be a man. 

* Let your home be a meeting place for the wise; dust yourself in the soil of their feet, and drink thirstily of their words. 

* Make that His will should be your will, so that He should make your will to be as His will. Nullify your will before His will, so that He should nullify the will of others before your will. 

* The honor of your fellow should be as precious to you as your own, and do not be easy to anger. 

* An evil eye, the evil inclination, and the hatred of one's fellows, drive a person from the world. 

* The day is short, the work is much, the workers are lazy, the reward is great, and the Master is pressing. He would also say: It is not incumbent upon you to finish the task, but neither are you free to absolve yourself from it. 

* One who increases flesh, increases worms; one who increases possessions, increases worry; one who increases wives, increases witchcraft; one who increases maidservants, increases promiscuity; one who increases man-servants, increases thievery; one who increases Torah, increases life; one who increases study, increases wisdom; one who increases counsel, increases understanding; one who increases charity, increases peace. One who acquires a good name, acquired it for himself; one who acquires the words of Torah, has acquired life in the World to Come. 

Blessed be!

Author: Monie Maunay
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better things by massive attack and tracy thorn of everything but the girl



Dont drag me down
Just because youre down
And just cause youre blue
Dont make me too
Although youve found
Beauty more than me
Dont talk to me
About being free

Thats freedom without love
And magic without love
Magic without love

Hear me say - better things would surely come my way

Hear me say - better things wouldl surely come my way

You say the magics gone
Well Im not a magician
You say the sparks gone
Well get an electrician
And save your line about needing to be free
Ah, thats bullshit babe
You just wont let it be



Author: Monie Maunay
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